#Purposeful Living Love&Relationships

You Will Survive!

Hello Dearies!
How was your weekend? I hope it was great and you are all revved up(or not) for monday?
It doesn’t matter if you are revved up or not sef o,Monday is here so get up!!!

I have been holding back on writing this post for a while now.
But I really feel that someone needs this and I am directing today’s write-up to all who have/are contemplating getting out of abad relationship/a relationship gone wrong or relationship that’s not right for you.

I know you may have given your ALL to to this person…
Money,time,the entirety of your emotions.
You really thought you’d end up together.
As a matter of fact,you feel you can never,ever love anyone else if you leave this one.
You are so used to him/her and it seems like your life is intertwined…

But that doesn’t change the fact that;-

You do know He/she isn’t any good for you.
You do know he/she cheats on you and you cannot subject yourself to a life of sadness.
You do know you cry for one reason or the other each time you see.
You do know that every iota of Joy in you has been sucked out as a result of this relationship…

But despite all these the big question remains…
Can I survive without him/her?

Even with the fact that that he has told you he doesn’t want you anymore time and time again because he knows you’ll come back begging,you still relinquish every iota of pride and go back begging time and time again for the screwed up love that you have.
You’d rather manage than leave him/her.

Your friends/family are wondering why you accept such ill treatment from the one that claims to love you.
Why someone who is worth so much as to be called the apple of God’s eye accepts such a screwed type of relationship.
They can clearly see that you deserve more.

You also know you deserve better.
But you really still there for one reason only…
You don’t know if you can survive without them.

My heart goes out to you.

But let’s look at this realistically and critically for a moment.

Yes you want to be with someone,you need someone but let’s put the word “need” into perspective.

Is this person the air you breathe?
Will you die without this person?(Real death,not the type you think)
Now breathe in…
Breathe out…
Didn’t that feel good?
Were they in sight?

Are you still alive?

What does that tell you??

Yes,You can survive.
You will survive!

Does He/she hold your future in their hands?
Only God does!

He/she does not feature anywhere in the grand scheme of things,except God says so.
And if you have to let go of that person,pls do,and let God come in.

You are stronger than you think dear.
You just have to reach deep down inside you and draw out your strenght.
You can do all things through Christ that strenghtens you.

If he/she isn’t for you,
Please chose yourself,your glorious future and your happiness and let him go.

You can survive without him.
You will survive without him.
All you really need is God + oxygen(like we’ve illustrated) and not man.

PS-This is dedicated to my bosom friend,you are a wonderful,wonderful person and God has more in store for you.
You will survive dear.

PPS-The one guy I ever thought I won’t survive without,later came begging for me to take him back.
But err…
my shakara knew no bounds.
His time had passed.
He was bad for me.
I let go and I let God.
I survived.
I am still surviving!
I am am doing more than surviving.
I am excelling,Living in the glorious now and future that God has for me.

You can too.
You Will Survive!

I leave you with these words-“If your heart can love the wrong person this much,imagine how much more your heart can love the right one”
Let Go and Let God.
The Right One Cometh.

Happy new week.
#Better things ahead.
#Greater grace.

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  • Reply
    October 21, 2013 at 2:47 pm

    Walahi..you musta been pulling some telekinesis stunts yesterday while travelling…my pastor alluded to this topic in the message yesterday…

    Bless your heart dear for sharing…plenty people should see this…too real!

    We would celebrate your God-ordained relationship in His beautiful timing.

  • Reply
    October 21, 2013 at 3:36 pm

    Telekenesis stunts kwa? Hehe.
    I believe God just works in strange ways and stranger ways still 2get d msg across,even in convos in a bus wt random strangers.
    Thank u,thank u.the right one cometh indeed.

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    Chi Chi
    October 21, 2013 at 5:10 pm

    This is the best piece I ve read today. I now ve a re-orientation on the whole thing… God bless Frances.

    • Reply
      October 22, 2013 at 6:20 am

      Thanks Chi Chi,this also spoke to me as much as it did 2u.I pray God blesses us all as our mindsets change.thanks.

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    grace esegbue
    October 21, 2013 at 7:56 pm

    Dats a Gud one

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