Hello,hello,hello sweeries!!! I know I haven’t posted since monday and I’ve missed you all so much.
Hope you’ve all had a great week??
Don’t mind Nigerian law School(NLS) o,its their fault.
They threw me off for a bit with postings and all what nots.And you know that means money and preparations things(or you don’t know??ah,go and check their website for the fees and all)
Btw,I was posted to Lagos like I prayed for so I aint complaining.
I am even dancing! God has been/is amazing!!!
So I am sure you are waiting for me to talk about that picture above…Well,that’s the man I’d really love to marry.He’s been planning to come and see my parents for a while and as a way of introduction,I showed his picture to my mom.
And mumsi said;- “God forbid!”
That I can’t marry him.
And that his head is shaped funny so I should have pity on my children’s head.
Kai! I cried,and cried and I am still crying.
This guy loves God,loves me like crazy,is hardworking,has a vision for how his future should be and cares about me so much.
Isn’t that the virtues those relationship gurus taught us to look for in a future partner?
So I am wondering…
Does it really matter that the guy isn’t handsome according to world standards?
Or that his head is shaped funny?
Or that I am taller than him in my shortest heels?
Does it matter that she’s as stocky as tree?
Or that she’s flatchested?
Or that her “bakassi” is just like a wash board?
What if they have everything we need in a future partner?
But the only “somehow” thing is just that they don’t have everything we want on a future partner.(Notice the difference?)
Should we then let them go?
Does beauty consist of just the outward appearance?
Will only the outward appearance make us happy in the long run?
Please people,help me out here.
My prince charming above is still waiting for my reply.
And if you snickered at the “prince charming” I used to describe him above,God is watching you in 3d!
Alright people,don’t forget to drop your comments,the extent of the gra-gra I will form for mumsi depends on it.
Btw,I’ll doing a post on this beauty ish soonest,God knows its necessary and I hope mumsi reads it.
Watch out for it too.
Have a splendid day people!
I am off to plan&prepare more for NLS.
But sha,the only plan&prepare I really need is MONEY!!!
Oghenero EzazaOctober 17, 2013 at 7:59 am
Tel mumsi say na u wan mary am no b she. Congrats on NLS
imperfectlyperfect92October 17, 2013 at 8:46 am
thanks Ezaza..but I am afraid,dat response is too soft for mumsi. O,I need something stronger.she nor go gree hear dat one,u knw they think they know d best thing for us…
joanOctober 17, 2013 at 8:04 am
Its a joke ryt?physical appearance doesn’t matter buh common,’dis dude no ba am o’.congrats on ur postin 2 lag
imperfectlyperfect92October 17, 2013 at 8:50 am
Joan,I don’t know if its a joke sef o,mumsi can say dis.u r sayin wat she said o,u say physical appearance doesn’t matter and I knw d guy nor b am bt wat if dis is my very own? R u saying I shud let him go? Abeg o.
Thanks 4ur wishes.
sandra ufuomaOctober 17, 2013 at 9:50 am
Jokes aside..I need a sincere answer from u.if this guy actually proposes,no approaches u(proposing will be going too far) will u sincerely accept him even if mum or any other person has no objection.I need a sincere yes or no answer before I drop further comment.
Jo!October 17, 2013 at 10:06 am
erm, I am wondering whether you got this person’s permission to post their pix here? If I stumble on my pix on a “random” site, with this kind of post, I would not be happy. #justsaying
imperfectlyperfect92October 17, 2013 at 2:23 pm
Jo,Thanks for your thoughtfulness as regards the picture.(I honestly didn’t avert my mind to that) and thankfully,I don’t think that’s a real person per say(with the source I got it from,it can’t be real).there’s something called photoshop&with face warp,u can set,reset and distort features on a face to give you what you want.#just saying#
I do appreciate your visiting my “random site” though.thanks a lot.
imperfectlyperfect92October 17, 2013 at 2:12 pm
@Sandie,sincere answer? If he approaches me,no.but if I have grown to know him and he has good inner qualities and I am sure he is good for me as a husband,yes(but it sure will take d grace of God sha,afterall who nor like fine thing?)
I’ve given u my answer,oya comment further
sandra ufuomaOctober 17, 2013 at 6:53 pm
Av seen d ‘no’ I wanna see..the world is d way it is..ur physical look matters a lot.pls mention any unsual looking married man now that actually got married befored he became famous or popular..though it is adviced that all d qualities one wants in a man shld not all b captioned and based on his physical looks but his character but d truth is u can only get to know his character if his physical look is acceptable or manageable 2 u..in summary,if u look ‘somehow’ or ‘unusaul’concentrate on being famous,wealthy and successful b4 u think of marrying a ‘normal looking gal’ cuz that is d only time her love can be blind to ur unusual looks.harsh as it may seem(since its not d ‘victims’ fault that he was born with such physiacl challanges,hehehe)but it is d way it is..I totally support ur mum except d guy is has rich as bill gate,as famous as obama and as godly as pastor E.A Adeboye(heheheheheh)
imperfectlyperfect92October 17, 2013 at 7:25 pm
Oh,Sandie,your statement is worst than mumsi’s own ooo!
U do av a point,d physical attributes have to also appeal to us but if he doesn’t have that,do I then throw him away? What if his inner attributes makes him attractive in my eyes bt to d eyes of d world he’s “somehow”.shouldn’t I then listen to my own heart?
This matter nawa o.
LizzieebunoluwaOctober 17, 2013 at 3:01 pm
*chuckling&stifling laughter*…Why do I have a hard time believing he’s all that@description?how come you didn’t put up a lovey-fovey pix of you both?..uh..sorry…got carried away..my two cents uh?
er..em.just talk to God to soften momma’s heart…okay?
Pity we got a judged-based-on-appearance- culture…with the minor exception here and there…God help us
Yaaaay@NLS posting to lag…Enjoy ma’am….God’s still in the business of providing….He’s got you!….
imperfectlyperfect92October 17, 2013 at 3:57 pm
Ehe eh,Lizzieebunoluwa,He’s all that and more o,I couldn’t post pictures of both of us because my phone crashed and I lost all pictures I had of us together and his phone was stolen by one guy he helped(see,he is also so generous)and he didn’t want to tell the boy to replace his phone and…… So this was the only one I could find.hehehhe.
Yeah,most people(maybe even me included,I have to check myself wen I notice it) judge a person on only their physical features.sad but true cuz that’s not what really matters.
Thanks a lot,NLS will be great 4me.God is still the ultimate provider and He hasn’t changed.
And thanks for visiting my blog,I appreciate
uchennaOctober 17, 2013 at 5:33 pm
LWKMD. i swearonly that load way him carry for head disqualify am. i support ur momise for this point.
imperfectlyperfect92October 17, 2013 at 5:57 pm
Uchenna,u r saying my “Prince charming” is disqualified? Because of what na? Head only? What abt all the wonderful qualities he has? God is watching u oo
Thanks for stopping by
grace esegbueOctober 17, 2013 at 8:07 pm
Tell me you are joking!! Are u really serious?
imperfectlyperfect92October 17, 2013 at 9:00 pm
Hehehehe.what do you think Grace? Real or not??…
drnsmusingsOctober 20, 2013 at 10:44 pm
Dear sister check that head again. They don’t call it hammer head of horrors for nothing. If nothing was wrong with it you would not be asking our opinion. Oyibo call it ‘ hydrocephalus’. Google am, no be beta thing. Plus if d guy head u by mistake u fit no wake up. Lol. Love ur blog though. Keep it up
imperfectlyperfect92October 21, 2013 at 2:34 pm
Drnsmusings! Kai! U’ve cracked me up real good.av been terribly busy and ur comment just made me have my most heartfelt laugh 2day.
D guy nor fit head me o,he is a very gentle somebody.
And u say thrs something wrong wt my beloved? Because of only head.u pple encourage me na.I can’t fit lose him ooo!
Thanks 4visiting my blog.thank u,thank u
LizzieebunoluwaOctober 21, 2013 at 2:37 pm
Lol….how’s reg coming along?
imperfectlyperfect92October 22, 2013 at 10:09 pm
Kai! Doc,I just google dat hydrocephalus.abeg o,my prince charming doesn’t have dat kind of condition.his head is just big.na he mama cause am,she nor press he head well 4small pikin.
Biko,he nor get medical condition,I nor gree jare.
imperfectlyperfect92October 21, 2013 at 3:02 pm
Lizzie Reg? Hmm,I have been stuck at a cafe since 9am.that’s howfar its coming along.
Its the reason why I was so grateful for drnsmusings comment.it made me laugh.
Btw,pls do u av a blog? I tried clicking on ur link to check it out,it didn’t open.if u do pls drop ur link,let me check it out.
LizzieebunoluwaOctober 21, 2013 at 3:54 pm
Aww..pele dear…thank God for much needed laughs yeah?…I know right?@God’s mysterious ways…talk about keying into the united/ubiquitous frequency of His spirit…
Yes..I have a blog…I’m unfortunately not as committed as the rest of y’all…*self-deprecating smile*
Feel free to stop by @ http://www.lizzieebunoluwa.wordpress.com.
Do take care now…
imperfectlyperfect92October 22, 2013 at 6:23 am
Ah,yes o,thank God for much needed laughs indeed.
Lemme port to ur blog now.
findipenyOctober 22, 2013 at 4:16 pm
laffing out loudest!!! this is too funny, sorry i am laughing so much. will come back with a more constructive comment. this is my first time visiting ur blog and i think i will be staying. *still laffing.
imperfectlyperfect92October 22, 2013 at 10:07 pm
Ghen ghen ghen ghen,Findipeny is laughing and using my serious marital stuff to play.
Pls o,come back and tell me wat 2do,d matter is still on ground..lols
Thanks 4visiting,pls stay o,come back time and time again.*smiles*
findipenyOctober 23, 2013 at 11:48 am
lol! ok. i have stopped laughing o! I have a fiction blog and i would like to reblog your post cos as funny and impossible (per people’s comment) as this sounds,thousands of ladies have issues like this. so do i have you permission?
check out the blog http://www.ibilivinfiction.wordpress.com
imperfectlyperfect92October 23, 2013 at 5:27 pm
Findipenny,ah,u have my permission o.ofcourse. I am porting to your site now.
findipenyOctober 24, 2013 at 10:32 am
thank u darl!
E'October 23, 2013 at 1:37 pm
Nne first congrats on NLS jare. I know Law school is slaying but you will survivewella jare.
As for the man, enjoy ooo. Sofar he is handsome to you, THE END!!!
imperfectlyperfect92October 23, 2013 at 5:29 pm
Ah,amen o,I will survive.
And your comment is the only one that’s pointing me in a reasonable direction.all d rest are laughing at me.lol…thanks for stopping by E.
E'October 23, 2013 at 5:44 pm
PortableglowOctober 24, 2013 at 8:59 pm
imperfectlyperfect92October 24, 2013 at 10:33 pm
Portable glow, “hmm” doesn’t help dis matter oo.
Thanks 4visiting my blog.I appreciate
EzarMarch 15, 2014 at 6:15 pm
lwkmd…Frances of God, I comment my reserve.
imperfectlyperfect92March 15, 2014 at 7:31 pm
hehehehhe Ezar, you comment the reserve for head only o, you for write am down. lol
buqieMarch 16, 2014 at 12:51 am
This is cracking me up big time.
Gen-Gen. Action film is about to happen.
Shey they say, ‘beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder’ abi?
Buh you sef pity your unborn children na….
Criously now, i don’t think physical qualities alone is enuf to disqualify a guy
This your pic tho….
I rest my case.
imperfectlyperfect92March 16, 2014 at 8:22 am
I don’t think physical qualities is enough to disqualify him too but I just wonder though..the head Buqie, the head. but if he beats them all and God says yes, then ok o.
but you funny o, you rest your case on the pic abi?that’s one of his best. hehe
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deeFebruary 19, 2015 at 1:30 am
Lmho…..seriously??? Am still laughing oooo will be back yo dtop a proper comment.Lovely blog frances.
Frances OkoroFebruary 19, 2015 at 6:36 pm
First of all, welcome to the blog!!
Thank you for stopping by…
Oya, i’m waiting for you to stop laughing…the real comment now..:-)
DeeMarch 5, 2015 at 3:00 am
Am back oooo at last. Ehn ehn me thinks… the inner qualities is primary every other thing can be worked on.. money dey na abi? Ehn ehn, you can tush him up. Carry on my sister.
P.s I have a confession though for the kinda man I wannna marry annd he must be fairer than the sons of isaachar.
Frances OkoroMarch 5, 2015 at 3:49 pm
What if money nor dey nko?
Wetin person go do then?
Forget the inner qualities? Hehe.
This your quality for your list.
On a serious note though, try and read our “who gave you that list” post on the blog. 🙂