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Reintroduction To Frances’ Love Letters

Hi there! My name is Hephzibah Frances, formerly (and still) known as Frances Okoro of Imperfectly Perfect Lives blog. A lot of persons have asked me about my change of name; if you were subscribed to the blog last year, then you must have gotten my explanation about how God renamed me on my 25th birthday. Some months later and I am still getting a hang of the changes that name change brought into my life. (By Monday we shall…

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How God Healed Me Of My Distrust Of Men (And How He Can Heal You Too)

Hello my dear amazing ladies and gentlemen, Hope you all are doing ama-mazingly well? So last week, I had cause to revisit the post I did on my friend who was stabbed by his wife (see lessons from when I almost dated an engaged man HERE). As I reread the post, I was taken down memory lane and began to share some lessons with my sisters on the women at the well group. One of the things I shared was…

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Weddings: A Tool For Evangelism

Dear brothers and sisters, Once upon a long time ago I used to be a wedding crasher. My ears used to tingle at the sound of WE to the DDING!! And as soon as I heard that one of my secondary school classmate was getting married, I stormed the day, whether I was invited or not. The last few years has seen my interest in weddings all but die a natural death. Suddenly, I would much rather sleep in than…

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But Why Are You So Picky About Choosing A Husband?

Dear Single Ladies And Gentlemen, I remember having an argument with some guys when I was at Nigerian Law School. I had said that I will not accept a man who would cheat on me and I believe that God won’t give me that kind of man and I was told to “go find that kain man na”. I wasn’t a new believer per say but I also really didn’t have totally strong convictions in God then. I was easily…

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The Struggle Between Letting Go (Of That Guy/Girl) And Letting God

My dear single ladies and gentlemen, I remember that day or rather those days so clearly. Those days of wondering whether I was supposed to leave the relationship I was in or not. You see, I wanted a new life; I wanted a different life, one better than the one which I had. I didn’t know how to get it except to go back to God – the One  I had no intimate knowledge of but simply knew He was…

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What I Learned From Watching A Couple This Week

My dear single ladies and gentlemen, I’m so thrilled to be able to write to you again; the last time we had correspondence of this sort was in August. How time flies! I hope you are all doing well. Is anyone among us getting married in this season? It’s been a season of weddings and all. Do share the good news if the bug has hit you too! 🙂 I believe the bug will be hitting lots of us soon……

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For When You Feel Invisible To Them Boys…

My dear sisters-in-waiting, I hope we are doing good? Long time no letters to you all, I know, I am sorry. Today’s letter have been ringing in my heart for the past few days, and I’m going to share on some things that are best hidden. Lol. But someone may need this, so let’s go on… So, I have written HERE about my struggles with believing that I am beautiful and accepting myself the way I am, seeming flaws and…

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When Your Prayers For A Spouse Becomes An Idol

Dear single ladies and gentlemen, I always have a smile when I type out that salutation to you all… I just love you all you know? Some of you have been reading my letters week in, week out since 2013 and some of you just joined us… I don’t know you all, but writing to you gladdens my heart. I pray that all what God has been teaching us shall not be lost… when the time comes, we shall apply…

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Join Us As We Pray For Grace To Be Worthy Spouses

My darling single ladies and gentlemen, Every time I skip a week of writing a letter to you it seems like a whole year has passed by… I apologize for the lack of Frances’ Love Letter on here last week… I was at Redeem camp and just couldn’t get back in time to write/publish a post. But it’s all good.   Yesterday after praying for a bit in the morning and telling the Holy Spirit to teach me how to…

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A Guide To Managing Your Lovey Dovey Emotions (For The Single Ladies & Guys)

My dear single ladies and gentlemen, How did your week go? I spent mine in great ways… First on Monday, I had the radio interview with @wigradio which will be aired on March 1st (stick around people), then we just had 16 hours of praying in tongues at my Church last night! Talk about a single woman revving herself up in the spirit! I am still on high from last night… twas and still is amazing! I was surprised myself,…

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