My fellow single men and ladies,
How una dey?
Me? I dey fine oh, just been thinking a bit about how almost all my conversations with people end.
Almost all of them end with the other people saying “oya go find that kain man na”.
What kind of man you think?
Well, when I say my man won’t cheat on me, they say – “oya go find that kain man na”.
When I say my man will be like Lapidoth who wasn’t threatened by Deborah’s sucess and allowed her to be a judge in a country, they say – “oya go find that kain man na”.
When I say he will be a man who believes in no sex before marriage, a man who fears God through and through and preserves my body in purity, they say – “oya go find that kain man na”
I cross my heart, the things I say I expect my man to be/do are not over the top things, they are just stuff that arise out of being a man that fears God….
And to be honest, when they say “oya go find that kain man na”, it does shake me up a bit… but I figure, if I can use my faith in God to trust Him for a job, then why not use that same faith to trust God for an ama-mazing marriage?
Aha! So what do I do with the “oya go find that kain man na” talks?
I shut their voices and tune into God’s voice in me, into the word of God and into the amazing Christian marriages that I see around me.
And I write, oh, I write love letters to God and I tell Him that I trust Him. I tell Him that I know He knows all about me already and that He is setting things in place.
I tell Him that I know He is writing my love story and I’ll trust Him. He knows all anyway so I trust Him.
And guess what? He replies back! Hehe.
He tells me to chill. That He is working behind the scenes. That things will all come together IN HIS TIME. He tells me to WORRY NOT.
And He tells me I should just get my relationship right with Him and when I do, there’s no way I won’t also get my marital relationship right also.
So my fellow single men and ladies, howfar? Have you gotten your relationship right with God?
A lot of the worries won’t be there if you let God lead. If you chose to trust Him and have faith in Him.
Stop stressing/worrying about your marital future. Leave it all in the hands of God. He specializes in giving the best you know. He specializes in giving “that kain man/woman that people think don’t exist”.
Put your faith to work in getting the spouse of your dreams.
No more crying yourself to sleep you hear?
No more bitching about lack of “that kain man” to your friends.
When you anyone says “oya go find that kain man” to you, just do what I do…
Smile at the naysayers, and do cartwheels in your head for what your faith in God will do for your marital future.
And know that your marital life and future will be used by God to shine the light to others soon. It will be used to let others know that trusting God in the aspect of relationships and marriages is not in vain.
Step up the faith.
Stop cowering in the fear of terrible marriages all around.
Hold unto God, hold unto His word for you tightly.
He is still in the business of writing love stories.
He is still in the business of writing your love story.
He is still in the business of writing love stories that will bring glory to His name.
Don’t shortchange your faith, use it in this all important area of your life.
Young Christian folks will refer to your story as an encouragement in trusting God for great spouses someday…soon.
It will glorify God!
And speaking of faith, I’ve gotten my wig and gown for call to bar already oh, even though results have not been released. Hehe. I nor dey play, my success is sure already, I’m just waiting for physical manifestation.
2014 Law School graduates, you wanna faith it with me?
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I do hope I’ve recruited some faith filled singles on this journey of trusting God for “the one” for us sha?
Like always, I heart you all.
Till I write to you next time,
With lots of love,