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New Book: Chastity For Men + First YouTube Video!

Chastity for men book cover

Chastity for men book cover

I admit that I stared at the blinking cursor on this page before I started writing.

I didn’t know how to start this post.

How does one announce that a book that started out as a series on a blog is out?

How do you start the post that launches out a book that shares your story with sexual addictions – pre-marital sex and masturbation with the world?

I don’t know.

This is not your typical “book launch post”.

This is me struggling to find the words to say “Chastity For Men” is out!

I am excited and also expectant to see where God will take this book.

It is not about me, it is about spreading forth God’s truth and light about sex… With a sincere prayer that anyone roped in sexual addictions will find the same freedom I and the men whose stories are shared in the book found in Christ.


In a way I understand why the book launch had to be shifted to today.
I finally came to the point where “congratulations on your book” didn’t really mean anything to me.
I am no more concerned as to whether the email list increases today, all that’s resounding in my heart is that all of this is for God’s glory.
I am grateful to be used as a vessel, instrument and servant to string this book together and my simple prayer is that God’s light will come into the lives of everyone who reads this book – lives will be liberated and broken souls close to giving up on living in freedom from sexual sins will be made whole by God’s truth.


And I ask two things of everyone reading this post…
(1) Share this post via any of the social media buttons below so others can get this book too.
(2) Say a word of prayer before you leave this page that God’s name will be glorified through the words in this book.
That His light will shine brightly in every heart that the words in the book comes into in Jesus name, amen.


You can get your free e-copy by entering your email below… but more than the e-copies, I believe that that this book will be out in hard copies soonest (and I write that here so I can indeed see the before and after of where God is taking this.

You can enter your email below and download your free e-copy from the follow up mail that will be sent to you.
Please make sure you check your spam msgs too for the mail.



And for every man wondering about why a lady put together a book on chastity for men, all I can write here is that this lady was roped in sexual addiction – masturbation and pornography for 8 years running.

All I want the men to know is that if God can take me – the messed up girl and make her into a new creature in Him, He can do the same for you.

I detailed everything about my story in the Youtube video below and the official “Chastity For Men” page

Watch the video below and I pray that you see my heart clearly as you do so.

And subscribe to my Youtube channel here





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  • Reply
    July 27, 2015 at 1:14 pm

    You are such a wonderful woman and sharing your testimony of freedom is wonderful.

    Like I told u i have been struggling about sharing my sextimony. You can’t imagine the great struggle its been for me to share. Watching this made it look so easy. You are such an encouraging woman.. More grace..

    I have tried downloading my book but its blank. Will just try again. Kudos to you dear.

    • Reply
      Frances Okoro
      July 28, 2015 at 5:59 pm

      Gabby….i think it’s hard to share our stories when we first obey the tug in our hearts to do so.
      After sharing my testimony at the beginning of the series on the blog, it became easier.
      So first thing, obey and God will grace you to see the rewards it will bring in the lives of people and not the “shame” in our own eyes.
      I’m certain you will share that testimony soon, lives need it.

      And I forwarded your copy to you, got your reply, so it’s all sorted now 🙂
      Thank you

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    July 27, 2015 at 1:23 pm

    This is great FRANCES!!! Thank you for not letting fear stop you. May God’s light indeed shine through this book and may many souls be liberated. God bless you girl! I pray he gives you strength for the journey ahead. Much love?

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      Frances Okoro
      July 28, 2015 at 6:51 pm

      First thing that hit me in your comment Mayowa… “strength for the journey ahead”
      But ofcourse there’s a journey ahead, I don’t see it yet but I am grateful for your prayers – I need them.
      Thank you!
      And will hit you a mail soon 🙂

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    July 27, 2015 at 6:35 pm

    You are amazing Frances. You are amazing and a wonderful light.God will be gloried and He will touch hearts through this book. Many will be encouraged to pray and leave the story of their sex addition to God to do what He does best. There will be freedom and salvation in Jesus name.

    • Reply
      Frances Okoro
      July 28, 2015 at 6:46 pm

      Keke, I love how your love shines through with each comment you post here..
      Thank you sis!
      Thank you!

  • Reply
    July 27, 2015 at 7:58 pm

    I loved the video. Such truth, passion and realness! May your testimony raise a renewed generation for Christ. You go girl!!!!

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    Princess Okechukwu
    July 28, 2015 at 11:02 pm

    ‘Eyes have not seen. Ears have not heard; neither has it entered into the hearts of men what God is doing and will do through you’…..

    And it begins…watch it start….I hope you’re ready…

    • Reply
      Frances Okoro
      July 29, 2015 at 8:04 pm

      Princess, I read your comment and first thing that came to mind is that I am blessed to have a wonderful tribe of ladies surrounding me.
      God bless you’ve been awesome, too awesome!
      Too awesome!

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    1 + The One
    July 30, 2015 at 8:31 pm

    Echoing InThe… You go girl!!! You are such an inspiration (I hope you know that!).
    Thank you for sharing your story, I am proud to know you and I pray that God will use you ever so mightily to and for the glory of His name in Jesus name xxxxx

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      Frances Okoro
      July 30, 2015 at 10:17 pm

      Amen and amen Ayo…
      Thanks so much sis!
      Much love..

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    August 1, 2015 at 6:28 pm


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