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Getting Married Without A Groom Part 15

“…that you do not become sluggish, but imitate those who through faith and patience inherit the promises.”
Hebrews 6:12 NKJV


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Chapter 15

I came into the year 2017 not really believing God anymore for marriage.
As far as I was concerned. My faith had taken a hit blow in 2016 and I couldn’t bear it any longer.

I still wanted to get married but I wasn’t willing to trust God for it.

I slipped into “if it be His will then let Him do it”. But really, my “if it be His will” was lined with unbelief.

God had to do a work in me for me to believe again that He wanted to give me a man.

It started at a prayer meeting in May 2017.

I had walked into the meeting tired and discouraged but then God began to rekindle my heart and remind me of who I was again. And then we were asked to ask God for two things we wanted Him to do for us.

I had just two things on my list:

1: Increased finances  (which He answered the next day)

2: Marriage (which began a series of things that were never before known to me).

The week after the prayer meeting I had a dream.
In the dream I and my brother were at a Church service. Then the pastor came around and began to hit my brother, asking him why he was sitting on my marraige.
And then he replied that “he was waiting for me”.

When I woke up, I was led to fast for three days with prayer regarding my marital destiny.
Thus began the series of fastings on my marriage as you would see soon.

When I woke up from that dream I knew it wasn’t my brother who was the person behind whatever it was holding my marriage back.

I went to his Bible and I read a paper where he had written his request to God for my marriage. It wasn’t him.

And then God gave me this scripture: a kingdom divided against itself shall not stand. So I knew this was satan’s trick, shrouding himself in lies.

I fasted and prayed for the three days.

Now for us to really understand this new season of fasting and prayer, I have to backtrack a little bit.

I had been led to fast and pray concerning my marriage once before in the same year 2017.

I cannot clearly remember what happened but that was the time I prayed and declared that the dry bones of my marital destiny come to life.

I didn’t know that the area or my marriage was literally going to be one of spiritual warfare. But I would see it soon…

1: Have you given up on God for your own marital breakthrough?
Do you think that you would never get married again?

I pray that as you follow this story to the end, you realize just how much faith in God works. And how it can work for you!

“Jesus said to him, “If you can believe, all things are possible to him who believes.”
-Mark 9:23 NKJV


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  • Reply
    Regina Aja
    August 28, 2018 at 6:10 pm

    Honestly, this blessed me. Thank you Sis.

  • Reply
    May 20, 2020 at 11:02 pm

    it’s amazing how i have experienced most of the processes and painful experiences you have been through. it gives my spiritual experiences some credibility. i am the only believe in my family. no one to talk to about dreams and at now this period [FeB 2020 to whenever,] is a marriage season.’ its all over youtube. after everything, and losing my counterfeit, I wonder if I will participate

    • Reply
      Hephzibah Frances
      July 28, 2020 at 2:53 pm

      Sis it is God’s will for you to have EVERY good thing He has for you. feed your faith and NOT fear. Get into the word, pray in the Spirit, let God’s word for you be your thoughts and BELIEVE THAT. God bless you

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