Dear Single ladies and gentlemen,
This is my first love letter to you for the year 2015 and I am excited.
I am excited to see just how much insight and revelation God gives to us on godly relationships.
I am excited to see just how much we are all inspired to take the back seat and let God write our love story.
It is my prayer that in this 2015, God will teach us, guide us and lead us away from incidents on matters of the heart that aren’t good for us.
Do I seem well put together to you on this aspect of living my love life God’s way?
Well, the very essence of this blog debunks any claim that I have got it all together perfectly.
I am imperfectly perfect remember? God only decided to shower His mercies on me and reveal to me some of His purposes as regards what He wants maritally for me.
And He can do the same for you if you let Him.
I had no clue as to what God wanted for me as regards relationship at a time.
As a matter of fact, the year 2010, 2011 and 2012 saw me crossing over into the year with one heart break or the other from a relationship that was never meant to be.
I used to always have a baggage relationship wise…. Baggage that I should have never carried as the relationships were terribly wrong for me.
In December 2012, I decided to have my very last pity party.
You know, the pity party of “Lord, why me? Why do I always have to be heart broken at the end of the year?”
I was in an “almost relationship” with a wrong guy again who didn’t care for me in any way.
I swallowed lies and thought I(not God) should give Him a chance even when I said I wanted God’s best.
He wasn’t a man sold out to God.
The fruits he displayed weren’t of the Spirit, but I felt I could change him.
Needless to say, I ended up being burnt and in January 2013, I decided to lose myself in God and never have unnecessary relationship drama in my life anymore.
Was it a smooth ride afterwards?
Did I still make mistakes?
It seemed like “almost relationships with wrong people trailed me”.
But I am thankful for the gift of rejection and almost relationships… God never let them be a reality because He has a plan for my marriage; one that would shine forth the light.
He doesn’t want me to settle for less than I deserve even more than I myself do not want to settle for less, so He pulls me away from relationships that aren’t for me.
It’s always painful at the time, but I am always thankful at the end of it all.
And God can do the same for you too you know?
It takes a lot to walk away from toxic relationships that have none of God’s backing in our lives but the rewards are amazing.
Aren’t you tired of the tears?
Aren’t you tired of going your own way relationship wise?
Won’t it be wise to let God take the reins this 2015?
A good place to start is to pray this prayer… “Lord, let your will be done in my marriage, pull me away from relationships that aren’t your will for me”
That prayer works wonders…
Relationships can break left, right and centre after this but it’s great to come to a point where we DEEPLY trust God and not our own minds.
He might lead you to step away and break things up… Or He might lead you to stay…
Either ways, 2015 is a great year to follow God’s leading maritally.
If you need a clean slate from wrong relationships, this is a great time to do that.
Trust God and let Him be the wind beneath your wings.
Drop whatsoever baggage you are carrying relationship wise and let God take control.
It is my prayer that we will not miss it maritally.
God will bring us together with His very best for us and not our best for ourselves in Jesus Name, amen.
I pray for a drama free relationship year for us all and a year full with trusting God DEEPLY with our marital story.
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Drop the emotional drama and baggage this year and live freely in God’s Love.