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If You Left Your Single Friends Behind After You Got Married… That Was A Very Foolish Thing To Do!

“Marriage involves you in all the nuts and bolts of domestic life and in wanting to please your spouse, leading to so many more demands on your attention.”  – 1st Corinthians 7:33 We would be lying if we say that we do not recognize the fact that of a truth, marriage does involve a person in all the nuts and bolts of domestic life. Where before you could chose to cook or not cook, now you have to cook or…

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Frances's Love Letters Love&Relationships

Same Trap; Different Guy

Something happened recently in my life that caused me to go back in time to this evergreen lesson God gave to me at a time when I was a “hot cake” during my NYSC YEAR. I had this guy who was toasting me then…he was all like “I like you, I like the way you are a Christian and you will really help me in my walk with Christ etc etc. I used to tell him no to his question…

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Another Thing God Told Me That Broke Me Out Of Sexual Addiction

Hello people of God, how are you doing? So if you are new to my blog or YouTube channel, you may have not seen the testimony of how God delivered me from sexual addiction, written here. God has gone ahead to give me books on this topic: Chastity for men and Chastity for young ladies. And I keep on getting emails and messages from people who need help in this angle. Today I felt to share another perspective God gave…

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In A Relationship: Am I Worthy Of A Good Man?

Once upon a time, because of my past and abortions I had had, I really and truly doubted that God would bless me with a good man. And not only that, but also because of the fact that I had pretty low self-esteem issues. I spoke about this in our post last week. Who would want or accept a girl like me? Would any man in his right senses really want me? With all my flaws? Am I good enough…

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In A Relationship: Should I Love Him More Than He Loves Me?

Once upon a time, I was that girl who would fall in love with a guy, do all the calling and gift giving, money giving and all what-not, all the in name of “I love him”. I always seemed to be falling short of something I didn’t know because always, it would turn out that no matter what I did, none of these guys truly loved me. I grew a bit jaded with the love thing because as far as…

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YouTube: My Relationship Journey…

Hi Everyone, how are you doing? No matter what I do, God keeps drawing my attention to this blog. I’m tired of struggling and failing and flailing on this so I have a structure in my head I Am going to work with. 1: Write on Monday’s sharing videos from my YouTube channel that have gone up that week.. 2: Write on Friday’s sharing Christian fiction writings God has given to me. 3: Write on Saturdays with main blog posts…

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THE PRINCIPLE OF DEATH AND RESURRECTION IN RELATIONSHIPS (and Marital Desires)

“Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain.” -John 12:24 NKJV I have been familiar with this principle for a while. If you read my post about how God asked me to let my dreams – the dreams He gave me die here then you would realize how this principle has been in operation in my life through the years.…

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I Broke My Purity Vow: Is There Still Hope For Me?

Him: Are you a virgin? Me: No. But I am not sexually active. ****   The above waa a conversation I had with a doctortising my lastest upcoming books Chastity for men and chastity for ladies, I came across a comment of a man on one of my posts who read it and said “but you aren’t a virgin…”. I replied and said “no, I am a revirgin”. And I was chuckling all the way. You see, sometimes ladies (Christians)…

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HF NEW Writings Love&Relationships

But Isn’t It Okay That He Stays Chaste ‘Just For Me’?

When I was younger (and I am stilll young! 😊) my desires used to be simple. I was okay if a man declared that He wanted to stay chaste and off pre-marital sex just because of me. I mean it would go something like “oh wow, I can do it for you…” and it would flatter me, well because who wouldn’t it flatter that a man is willing to stop sowing his wild oats just so he can have me?…

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Getting Married Without A Groom Love&Relationships

Getting Married Without A Groom Parr 17

“…that you do not become sluggish, but imitate those who through faith and patience inherit the promises.” Hebrews 6:12 NKJV **** Missed the last episode, click here ** Chapter 17 **** That same July 2017 I attended a conference  – ROTH (Return Of The Helper Conference) organized by Bidemi Mark-Mordi. During the time for testimonies a woman testified about how she had been a widow for the 10 years and at the previous year’s conference she told God it was time…

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