I started writing this book series last year when I went away to Calabar to spend time with God. God had spoken to me about my marriage and asked me to IN FAITH begin to write this book. I stopped at the end of 2017. Now, I know that I am IN FAITH to begin again. It is a memoir of sorts beginning at the beginning of my life and ending at my marriage. It would run every Saturday here…
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My Commitment: I Will Never Quarrel With My Husband Because Of Money
Posted on June 3, 2017My dear brothers and sisters, How are you all doing? Hope you are having a blessed month of June like I am.. So I was supposed to put this up last week but long story on why I couldn’t  (please forgive me). About two weeks ago I met a lady in a bus and we got talking.  I could tell that she is a believer as we spoke and it was confirmed not long after. You know, it is so…
But Why Are You So Picky About Choosing A Husband?
Posted on March 25, 2017Dear Single Ladies And Gentlemen, I remember having an argument with some guys when I was at Nigerian Law School. I had said that I will not accept a man who would cheat on me and I believe that God won’t give me that kind of man and I was told to âgo find that kain man naâ. I wasn’t a new believer per say but I also really didn’t have totally strong convictions in God then. I was easily…
Chronicles Of My February 12 Trip Challenge
Posted on March 1, 2015My dearies! I almost didn’t write this post like I said I would oh. I wanted to just drink tea after Church and sleep but ah… the fear of carrying over posts into a month that has no space for it is the beginning of blogging wisdom! I immediately sat up, transferred the pictures from my camera and here am I at the hill again, typing this post. The way I have been coming to this hill sha, I…
The 12 Trip Challenge For All Single Ladies
Posted on January 10, 2015Dear single lady, Today I want to tell you a story and I hope that we all learn a bit from it. I would have gotten married about 3years ago if I had agreed for a certain banker. He was nice, kind and didn’t drink alcohol. He said he liked me. I was young, fresh, had a beautiful smile and a free spirit. We met in a Bank. He told me he wasn’t playing games, he didn’t want me for…
So my roomate is a very funny girl. She regales us in the room with these crazy stories of her toasters.. For example, there was one guy that said he wanted to marry her and the guy was flashing her like no man’s business. One day, she just picked up her phone to call him, with no laugh on her face and speaking with serious passion, she said – “why are you always flashing me na, is this the way…
As at the time I wrote this in February, I personally felt like I had being listening to too much marriage and relationship talks and I was thirsty for career/take on the world/live in purpose talks⦠But I opened my Bible that morning and the lessons the Holy Spirit opened my eyes to see just kept pouring in and it hasnât stopped. As at on Monday when I re-read the passage in preparation for this series, new revelations kept springing…
I saw this yesterdayâ¦. âSo yesterday I met this girl who was so bitter &full of complaints over not having a Val on Valentineâs Day. I looked@her &said, You don’t have a Valentine on Valentine’s Day, so what? Some people don’t have a mother on Mother’s Day, a father on Father’s Day, or their siblings on Christmas. They didn’t cry to the world over it. Get a life &stop fussing over a man when you are a complete entity on…