So this happened on Saturday! It happened that it happened that God helped me and I released my first online course FOR FREE!! I am really excited because this could have been NOTHING short of the grace of God. SUCH GRACE TOO! And its coming FREE for you! The PROCESSING YOUR MARITAL PROMISES TO COME TO PASS online course is for everyone who God has made a marital promise to but haven’t received it.. YET. We want to show you…
love and relationships
Once upon a time, because of my past and abortions I had had, I really and truly doubted that God would bless me with a good man. And not only that, but also because of the fact that I had pretty low self-esteem issues. I spoke about this in our post last week. Who would want or accept a girl like me? Would any man in his right senses really want me? With all my flaws? Am I good enough…
In A Relationship: Should I Love Him More Than He Loves Me?
Posted on August 15, 2020Once upon a time, I was that girl who would fall in love with a guy, do all the calling and gift giving, money giving and all what-not, all the in name of “I love him”. I always seemed to be falling short of something I didn’t know because always, it would turn out that no matter what I did, none of these guys truly loved me. I grew a bit jaded with the love thing because as far as…
THE PRINCIPLE OF DEATH AND RESURRECTION IN RELATIONSHIPS (and Marital Desires)
Posted on July 21, 2019“Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain.” -John 12:24 NKJV I have been familiar with this principle for a while. If you read my post about how God asked me to let my dreams – the dreams He gave me die here then you would realize how this principle has been in operation in my life through the years.…
All Is Well That Ends In Marriage?
Posted on June 16, 2018No. Not true. Shebi he married you na? What if he dinnor marry you nko? As a young girl I used to think that marriage was all in all. Don’t blame it on me; blame it on the society. So when I started playing with boys deals by calling guys on newspaper, I thought that I was doing well as long as they said that they would marry me. And that was okay for me for a while.…
Getting Married Without A Groom Part 10
Posted on May 22, 2018Getting married without a groom series is a series I am running on the blog on my marital story. It would run till my wedding day. Be blessed. “And being fully persuaded that, what he had promised, he was able also to perform.” Romans 4:21 KJV ___________________________________________ If you missed the last chapter click here *** Chapter 10 Now I was single. Really single. No situationship. No attachment to anyone and God began to really work on me. I went through…
Getting Married Without A Groom Part 4
Posted on March 18, 2018God had spoken to me about my marriage and asked me to IN FAITH begin to write this book. It is a memoir of sorts beginning at the beginning of my life and ending at my marriage. It would run every Saturday here on the blog till my wedding holds. I hope that you are blessed and challenged by it in your own marital story. If you missed the last chapter click here ***** Chapter 4 I see him in my…
Dear brothers and sisters, I dug into Ruth’s story today and saw Boaz and smiled. I thought to share qualities we learnt from Boaz in The women at the well Bible study collection book today. ** Note that this is an excerpt from the book and you can get the book by mailing 4thewomenatthewell@gmail.com Okay, here goes: BOAZ (Ruthâs Husband) Most women want a Boaz and rightly so. Who wouldn’t want a man with no description of his physical…
My Commitment: I Will Never Quarrel With My Husband Because Of Money
Posted on June 3, 2017My dear brothers and sisters, How are you all doing? Hope you are having a blessed month of June like I am.. So I was supposed to put this up last week but long story on why I couldn’t  (please forgive me). About two weeks ago I met a lady in a bus and we got talking.  I could tell that she is a believer as we spoke and it was confirmed not long after. You know, it is so…
How God Healed Me Of My Distrust Of Men (And How He Can Heal You Too)
Posted on May 8, 2017Hello my dear amazing ladies and gentlemen, Hope you all are doing ama-mazingly well? So last week, I had cause to revisit the post I did on my friend who was stabbed by his wife (see lessons from when I almost dated an engaged man HERE). As I reread the post, I was taken down memory lane and began to share some lessons with my sisters on the women at the well group. One of the things I shared was…