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THE PRINCIPLE OF DEATH AND RESURRECTION IN RELATIONSHIPS (and Marital Desires)

“Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain.” -John 12:24 NKJV I have been familiar with this principle for a while. If you read my post about how God asked me to let my dreams – the dreams He gave me die here then you would realize how this principle has been in operation in my life through the years.…

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All Is Well That Ends In Marriage?

No. Not true.   Shebi he married you na? What if he dinnor marry you nko?   As a young girl I used to think that marriage was all in all. Don’t blame it on me; blame it on the society. So when I started playing with boys deals by calling guys on newspaper, I thought that I was doing well as long as they said that they would marry me. And that was okay for me for a while.…

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Getting Married Without A Groom Love&Relationships

Getting Married Without A Groom Part 10

Getting married without a groom series is a series I am running on the blog on my marital story. It would run till my wedding day. Be blessed. “And being fully persuaded that, what he had promised, he was able also to perform.” Romans 4:21 KJV ___________________________________________ If you missed the last chapter click here *** Chapter 10 Now I was single. Really single. No situationship. No attachment to anyone and God began to really work on me. I went through…

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Getting Married Without A Groom Love&Relationships

Getting Married Without A Groom Part 4

God had spoken to me about my marriage and asked me to IN FAITH begin to write this book. It is a memoir of sorts beginning at the beginning of my life and ending at my marriage. It would run every Saturday here on the blog till my wedding holds. I hope that you are blessed and challenged by it in your own marital story. If you missed the last chapter  click here ***** Chapter 4 I see him in my…

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Love&Relationships

Qualities To Look For In A Husband || Lessons From Boaz

Dear brothers and sisters, I dug into Ruth’s story today and saw Boaz and smiled. I thought to share qualities we learnt from Boaz in The women at the well Bible study collection book today. ** Note that this is an excerpt from the book and you can get the book by mailing 4thewomenatthewell@gmail.com Okay, here goes:   BOAZ (Ruth’s Husband) Most women want a Boaz and rightly so. Who wouldn’t want a man with no description of his physical…

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Frances's Love Letters Love&Relationships

My Commitment: I Will Never Quarrel With My Husband Because Of Money

My dear brothers and sisters, How are you all doing? Hope you are having a blessed month of June like I am.. So I was supposed to put this up last week but long story on why I couldn’t  (please forgive me). About two weeks ago I met a lady in a bus and we got talking.  I could tell that she is a believer as we spoke and it was confirmed not long after. You know, it is so…

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How God Healed Me Of My Distrust Of Men (And How He Can Heal You Too)

Hello my dear amazing ladies and gentlemen, Hope you all are doing ama-mazingly well? So last week, I had cause to revisit the post I did on my friend who was stabbed by his wife (see lessons from when I almost dated an engaged man HERE). As I reread the post, I was taken down memory lane and began to share some lessons with my sisters on the women at the well group. One of the things I shared was…

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Frances's Love Letters Love&Relationships

25, Single And Deriliously Happy

So technically, I am not 25 yet. I will be 25 in September but I am also not quite 24 right? And 25 just sounds better even though I am wondering how I am 25 so soon! I still remember when I was 16! I was going to base today’s letter on something else but I just got up from my prayer time (I am writing this at 01:51am. (Yes Black I see you  snickering at me, I don’t have…

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Guest Posts Love&Relationships

A.J BLACK: BUT WHY ARE YOU SO PICKY ABOUT CHOOSING A WIFE?

To understand where this is coming from, please read “But why are you so picky about choosing a husband” HERE This is from one of our blog fam Black who I all but harassed to write this (sorry). For our men – the men who wanna do marriage God’s way, I hope this  helps you stand against the flow of the world’s tide. Even I, a lady learned a lot from this. May God give us the gifts of a…

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The Struggle Between Letting Go (Of That Guy/Girl) And Letting God

My dear single ladies and gentlemen, I remember that day or rather those days so clearly. Those days of wondering whether I was supposed to leave the relationship I was in or not. You see, I wanted a new life; I wanted a different life, one better than the one which I had. I didn’t know how to get it except to go back to God – the One  I had no intimate knowledge of but simply knew He was…

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