I’ve only been married a few months, and I have come to see that love and marriage is something you prepare for and progress in. You must make effort, and not rely only on your feelings. As one of my favorite mentors, Vitaly Arkhipkin, said, “Love has feelings, but not only feelings; love is a decision, therefore our love must mature.” And for us who have made the decision to marry a woman or a man, we have to make…
