Dear Abimbola, This letter has been ringing in my heart for you… I realize that I stayed silent throughout our conversation about your “relationship dilemma”. I kept quiet because I was praying for wisdom on what to tell you but then I also kept thinking “why, but she’s missing it…” I just didn’t know how to tamper my words with love so you get my point and not get defensive… So I decided to write to you. Somehow my…
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Why I Need A Husband
Posted on October 17, 2015Dear Daddy, My heart almost stopped when I got the message from the proposed chief launcher of my book yesterday… He said he won’t be able to attend the book launch and for a few minutes, I was confused. Like what would happen now? Who do I ask to fill in? I experienced discouragement on another level last night and a bit of fear. As I sat down to collect myself and my thoughts and speak to you, I realized,…
Let’s Talk About Purposeful Relationships
Posted on April 15, 2015Hello everybody! How’s your week been so far? You don’t wanna know how mine has been, but all I will say is that I’ve got time on my hands, enough to yearn for a week of just writing, blogging, traveling and sightseeing another African country(story for another day) 🙂 A friend of mine who just started her blog wrote a blog post about being single/married this week. You can read the post here but the gist of it all…
Dear single ladies and men, How was your week? Stressful? Busy? Well, today’s saturday, you can chillax by starting out with Frances’s love letters 🙂 Something happened to me on Valentine’s day when I went for the dinner at church and I didn’t tell you about it in my last letter. I saw someone and started analyzing the person(nor be say he approach me oh, what a laugh) I thought to myself – “no, he can’t be the…
Lessons From When I Almost Dated An Engaged Man Part 2
Posted on February 7, 2015Dear All… My friend died. My friend… the engaged friend I wrote about the lessons learnt from our friendship died. He was killed. He was killed by his own wife. Stabbed in the neck by the one he married. I wish I could say that it’s a joke. I wish he would call me and tell me “Frances eh, they were just pulling your legs”. I re-read our whatsapp messages and I dial his number…wishing it will…
Dear single ladies and men, Hopefully, you are as strong in body as you are in your soul. Remember the last letter I wrote to you on lessons learnt from when I almost dated an engaged man? It would seem like a torrent full of men was rained down on me after that post. I sat one day and got thinking… Is it any wonder that some godly women and men settle for less than God’s best for them?…
Lessons From When I Almost Dated An Engaged Man
Posted on January 17, 2015Dear single ladies, How una dey? I hope you are not that shocked about the title up there? If you are, then there maybe need for you to read our about blog page here. We are imperfectly perfect lives remember? My own human frailties is as bad as yours, it is only by God’s grace that they are overcome and I am renewed from the inside out. The story you are about to read is true, real and I…
Dear Single ladies and gentlemen, This is my first love letter to you for the year 2015 and I am excited. I am excited to see just how much insight and revelation God gives to us on godly relationships. I am excited to see just how much we are all inspired to take the back seat and let God write our love story. It is my prayer that in this 2015, God will teach us, guide us and lead us…
Grace Efezokhae: The Crazy Line Between Finding Love And Being Desperate
Posted on December 27, 2014Proverbs 27:7- âHoney seems tasteless to a person who is full, but even bitter food tastes sweet to the hungryâ (NLT) I remember vividly the first time I came across this verse in the Bible, God made me remember a scenario that occurred in my undergraduate days. A room-mate of mine went home for a short break and it was a normal thing to bring back something for the girls. This sisi came back with plantain chips named âblessed…
Tips On How You Can Stay Sane As A Single Lady/Guy In This Season Of Celebration Of Marriages
Posted on November 29, 2014Dear single ladies and men, How una dey? It’s been a while I penned down a live love letter to you all. Life has been happening but I will be settled soon and back on a regular roll with you all… We are in the ’ember months right now, and in case you haven’t noticed, it’s the month of marriages and budding new families. I scrolled through my facebook time line and almost every post was celebrating a newly…