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All Is Well That Ends In Marriage?

No. Not true.   Shebi he married you na? What if he dinnor marry you nko?   As a young girl I used to think that marriage was all in all. Don’t blame it on me; blame it on the society. So when I started playing with boys deals by calling guys on newspaper, I thought that I was doing well as long as they said that they would marry me. And that was okay for me for a while.…

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I Am A Christian; I Don’t Ask Guys Out!

So as a young girl growing up with all sorts of mushy feelings, I used to “pursue” guys. I remember one of those failed relationships that I had begun from the guy giving me his BBM pin on Facebook to add him up. I DID. Then he gave me his number to call him, I DID. When it came to the time where I was eager to see him, he asked that I come to where he was, I DID.…

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Reintroduction To Frances’ Love Letters

Hi there! My name is Hephzibah Frances, formerly (and still) known as Frances Okoro of Imperfectly Perfect Lives blog. A lot of persons have asked me about my change of name; if you were subscribed to the blog last year, then you must have gotten my explanation about how God renamed me on my 25th birthday. Some months later and I am still getting a hang of the changes that name change brought into my life. (By Monday we shall…

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The Marriage Covenant

Dear sweet ladies and gentlemen, I would love to share my story with you about how God had me on the floor bawling my eyes out and consecratingconsecrating my marriage for His use…but instead I would rather on the importance of having a covenant with God as regards your marital destiny. I trust the Holy Spirit to also share what He would have us know.   “My covenant I will not break, Nor alter the word that has gone out…

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My Marriage Will Be For Your Kingdom

Dear Daddy, My marriage will be for your Kingdom. Signed Your daughter, Frances 20|11|2016 ******** I wrote the above in my journal last year. It had been a year where I thought I heard God say I would be married. I wasn’t thinking it..He said it but why didn’t it happen? I was stuck between still believing and just ignoring God. One night we had a study on @twtwnigeria on prayer using Hannah as a case study and the deal…

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Dear Future Hubby: We Are In A War

Hey baby, I have been meaning to write to you for a while but then something keeps popping up. I actually wrote this letter this morning, lost it and now have to write from scratch again. Oh well… This will be a quick one too. We are on our way to Omu resort based on TwtwTravelAndTours things 🙂   So I shared on Wednesday on how I found myself slacking with God and in need of new beginnings. Towards the…

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My Commitment: I Will Never Quarrel With My Husband Because Of Money

My dear brothers and sisters, How are you all doing? Hope you are having a blessed month of June like I am.. So I was supposed to put this up last week but long story on why I couldn’t  (please forgive me). About two weeks ago I met a lady in a bus and we got talking.  I could tell that she is a believer as we spoke and it was confirmed not long after. You know, it is so…

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Becoming God’s Own Kind Of Woman

My dear sisters, I have been on a journey with God of recent, one where He keeps tugging me on being His own kind of woman; the Proverbs 31 kind of woman. I first encountered the Proverbs 31 woman from Mama Toju my fellowship Vice President when I was in the University. It was she that also told me about Galatians 5:22 – the fruits of the Spirit. At the time I wrote out Galatians 5:22 and kept seeing it…

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For Those Dealing With Lustful Thoughts

Dear brothers and sisters, This will be one of my most transparent letters yet. As you well know if you aren’t new to this space, I struggled with pornography addiction and masturbation for about 8 years plus before God gave me complete victory over it (you can read my story with addictions and consequent freedom here) It’s been almost three years and I have been totally free! This is not to say that I haven’t been fighting battles to stay…

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How God Healed Me Of My Distrust Of Men (And How He Can Heal You Too)

Hello my dear amazing ladies and gentlemen, Hope you all are doing ama-mazingly well? So last week, I had cause to revisit the post I did on my friend who was stabbed by his wife (see lessons from when I almost dated an engaged man HERE). As I reread the post, I was taken down memory lane and began to share some lessons with my sisters on the women at the well group. One of the things I shared was…

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