Him: Are you a virgin? Me: No. But I am not sexually active. **** The above waa a conversation I had with a doctortising my lastest upcoming books Chastity for men and chastity for ladies, I came across a comment of a man on one of my posts who read it and said “but you aren’t a virgin…”. I replied and said “no, I am a revirgin”. And I was chuckling all the way. You see, sometimes ladies (Christians)…
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How To Be Better Wives & Mothers + Husbands & Fathers
Posted on January 7, 2017My dear single ladies and gentlemen, It’s hard to believe that this is almost the third year running since I started writing Frances’ love letters to you all. The passion still as strong and the message still as clear; we have to do this love and marriage thingy God’s way. I had a fight with my mom few days back. I should have known it was coming after I wrote Love Never Fails. I always get tests on love…
Let’s Talk About Sex, Virginity And Chastity For The Single Lady/Guy
Posted on December 5, 2015Dear Single Ladies And Gentlemen, It’s been a while since I wrote to you all. I recognize the fact that I still haven’t updated on gists from our single ladies outing… forgive me, I will get on it soonest. But in the space of a day, maybe two days, I have been hit with some brushes with “sex, chastity and purity” from different people. And when that happens and it’s laid in my heart so deeply, I believe it’s a…
New Book: Chastity For Men + First YouTube Video!
Posted on July 27, 2015I admit that I stared at the blinking cursor on this page before I started writing. I didn’t know how to start this post. How does one announce that a book that started out as a series on a blog is out? How do you start the post that launches out a book that shares your story with sexual addictions – pre-marital sex and masturbation with the world? I don’t know. This is not your typical “book launch post”. This…
For My Treasured Sisters: Get Your Bonus Chapter From The Chastity For Men Book
Posted on June 29, 2015It’s been a roller coaster of a week for me – one filled with prayers and lack of good sleep. Please remind me not to ever take any writer for granted, especially those who self published their books. Ekiti State has been good to me to the extent of their giving me light to work on the book, even though they mostly have been bringing the light at night. As a result, practically for every night in the past week,…
Blog News: Finally, All The Details About My Upcoming Two Books
Posted on June 22, 2015I’m still up at 11:41PM sunday night, reading up on page sizes and margins and trying to really think about what to write on this post. You see, I have been sharing snippets about the two books I am currently working on almost everywhere online but haven’t formally come out to give details about them… and when it comes right down to it, I am almost scared to make it official. I mean, “Frances, who ever told you that you…
And It’s A Wrap On The Chastity For Men Series
Posted on April 25, 2015Dear blog hearts, I’ve really missed you all. I’m sorry I went AWOL for a while. As you well know by now, I am currently a youth corper and after the election brouhaha (of which I shared my experience here) I decided to take a break from the khaki life and just chill. Shout out to Princess who checked on me, the rest of you didn’t check on me but I love you all the same 🙂 I am back now and…
Peter Abraham: I Overcame Masturbation By God’s Divine Grace
Posted on April 18, 2015Dear friends, Thank you for your response to the #ChastityForMenSeries so far. We have had Christians willing to come out to talk about their own journey on sexual chastity and also, prayerfully, helping others to walk in the freedom that Christ has given us over lust. And that’s just on this blog, I imagine that when the eBook comes out, even more lives will have access to this resource. Today, we have a non-anonymous brother sharing with us on his bondage with…
Brother T: How Can A Young Man Keep His Way Pure?
Posted on April 11, 2015Dear men (and women?) trying to live their lives for God, I’m so glad that good seeds are being sowed in your hearts, and that your fellow brothers are willing to share their stories on sexual addictions with us. These stories are by no means what the world would think that a good Christian man should have in their lives but I am (positively) amazed at them. They show that God can indeed come into any life and turn it…
Brother S: Overcoming Sexual Immorality
Posted on April 4, 2015Dear Lovers of Frances’s Love Letters, I hope that you are strong in spirit, soul and body? It seems like such a long time since we had a moment together but it was just last week we had the last post on the #ChastityForMen series. Today’s article on the #ChastityForMen series is written by a brother I admire and respect and if you know him personally, you’ll agree with me that he is a man that God has worked on his…