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THE PRINCIPLE OF DEATH AND RESURRECTION IN RELATIONSHIPS (and Marital Desires)

“Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain.” -John 12:24 NKJV I have been familiar with this principle for a while. If you read my post about how God asked me to let my dreams – the dreams He gave me die here then you would realize how this principle has been in operation in my life through the years.…

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Books And eBooks Resources Chastity For Men Project (Series) HF NEW Writings

I Broke My Purity Vow: Is There Still Hope For Me?

Him: Are you a virgin? Me: No. But I am not sexually active. ****   The above waa a conversation I had with a doctortising my lastest upcoming books Chastity for men and chastity for ladies, I came across a comment of a man on one of my posts who read it and said “but you aren’t a virgin…”. I replied and said “no, I am a revirgin”. And I was chuckling all the way. You see, sometimes ladies (Christians)…

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HF NEW Writings Love&Relationships

But Isn’t It Okay That He Stays Chaste ‘Just For Me’?

When I was younger (and I am stilll young! 😊) my desires used to be simple. I was okay if a man declared that He wanted to stay chaste and off pre-marital sex just because of me. I mean it would go something like “oh wow, I can do it for you…” and it would flatter me, well because who wouldn’t it flatter that a man is willing to stop sowing his wild oats just so he can have me?…

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Getting Married Without A Groom Love&Relationships

Getting Married Without A Groom Parr 17

“…that you do not become sluggish, but imitate those who through faith and patience inherit the promises.” Hebrews 6:12 NKJV **** Missed the last episode, click here ** Chapter 17 **** That same July 2017 I attended a conference  – ROTH (Return Of The Helper Conference) organized by Bidemi Mark-Mordi. During the time for testimonies a woman testified about how she had been a widow for the 10 years and at the previous year’s conference she told God it was time…

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Getting Married Without A Groom Love&Relationships

Getting Married Without a Groom Part 16

“…that you do not become sluggish, but imitate those who through faith and patience inherit the promises.” Hebrews 6:12 NKJV **** Missed the last episode, click here ** Chapter 16 In July 2017 we called for a fast in our women ministry “The women at the well”. It was to be a 31 Days fast and prayer for “Intimacy with Jesus”. All we wanted to do was to draw closer in relationship with Jesus; I didn’t know that God would use…

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Getting Married Without A Groom Love&Relationships

Getting Married Without A Groom Part 15

“…that you do not become sluggish, but imitate those who through faith and patience inherit the promises.” Hebrews 6:12 NKJV **** Missed the last episode, click here **** Chapter 15 I came into the year 2017 not really believing God anymore for marriage. As far as I was concerned. My faith had taken a hit blow in 2016 and I couldn’t bear it any longer. I still wanted to get married but I wasn’t willing to trust God for it. I…

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Getting Married Without A Groom Love&Relationships

Getting Married Without A Groom Part 14

Getting married without a groom series is a series on my journey to the altar that will run on the blog till my wedding. I pray you are blessed by it.   *************************************** “Thus says the Lord: Yet again there shall be heard in this place of which you say, It is a desolate waste, without man and without beast–even in the cities of Judah and in the streets of Jerusalem that are desolate, without man and without inhabitant and…

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Getting Married Without A Groom Love&Relationships

Getting Married Without a Groom Part 13

Getting married without a groom series is a series on my journey to the altar that will run on the blog till my wedding. I pray you are blessed by it.   *************************************** “Thus says the Lord: Yet again there shall be heard in this place of which you say, It is a desolate waste, without man and without beast–even in the cities of Judah and in the streets of Jerusalem that are desolate, without man and without inhabitant and…

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Frances's Love Letters Love&Relationships

All Is Well That Ends In Marriage?

No. Not true.   Shebi he married you na? What if he dinnor marry you nko?   As a young girl I used to think that marriage was all in all. Don’t blame it on me; blame it on the society. So when I started playing with boys deals by calling guys on newspaper, I thought that I was doing well as long as they said that they would marry me. And that was okay for me for a while.…

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Frances's Love Letters Love&Relationships

I Am A Christian; I Don’t Ask Guys Out!

So as a young girl growing up with all sorts of mushy feelings, I used to “pursue” guys. I remember one of those failed relationships that I had begun from the guy giving me his BBM pin on Facebook to add him up. I DID. Then he gave me his number to call him, I DID. When it came to the time where I was eager to see him, he asked that I come to where he was, I DID.…

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