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Getting Married Without A Groom (From Faith To Reality) Part 1

I started writing this book series last year when I went away to Calabar. God had spoken to me about my marriage and asked me to IN FAITH begin to write this book. I stopped at the end of 2017. Yesterday I knew that I was to IN FAITH begin again. It is a memoir of sorts beginning at the beginning and ending at my marriage. It would run every Saturday here on the blog till my wedding holds. I…

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The Marriage Covenant

Dear sweet ladies and gentlemen, I would love to share my story with you about how God had me on the floor bawling my eyes out and consecratingconsecrating my marriage for His use…but instead I would rather on the importance of having a covenant with God as regards your marital destiny. I trust the Holy Spirit to also share what He would have us know.   “My covenant I will not break, Nor alter the word that has gone out…

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My Marriage Will Be For Your Kingdom

Dear Daddy, My marriage will be for your Kingdom. Signed Your daughter, Frances 20|11|2016 ******** I wrote the above in my journal last year. It had been a year where I thought I heard God say I would be married. I wasn’t thinking it..He said it but why didn’t it happen? I was stuck between still believing and just ignoring God. One night we had a study on @twtwnigeria on prayer using Hannah as a case study and the deal…

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Dear Future Hubby: We Are In A War

Hey baby, I have been meaning to write to you for a while but then something keeps popping up. I actually wrote this letter this morning, lost it and now have to write from scratch again. Oh well… This will be a quick one too. We are on our way to Omu resort based on TwtwTravelAndTours things 🙂   So I shared on Wednesday on how I found myself slacking with God and in need of new beginnings. Towards the…

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Qualities To Look For In A Husband || Lessons From Boaz

Dear brothers and sisters, I dug into Ruth’s story today and saw Boaz and smiled. I thought to share qualities we learnt from Boaz in The women at the well Bible study collection book today. ** Note that this is an excerpt from the book and you can get the book by mailing 4thewomenatthewell@gmail.com Okay, here goes:   BOAZ (Ruth’s Husband) Most women want a Boaz and rightly so. Who wouldn’t want a man with no description of his physical…

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Lessons From Our Time With Ladies At Benin

So  today makes it two weeks since our time with the ladies at Benin. Yes on Saturday June 4th 2017 we were at Benin with ladies for “all things courtship and prayers for your future husband”. We had two couples with us: Barr and Barr Mrs Kelvin and Eva Egharevba And Barr and Barr Mrs Godspower and Misan Omokwe. God showed Himself mightily. I especially love how He used the couples to share His truth. He thrashed issues of courtship…

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My Commitment: I Will Never Quarrel With My Husband Because Of Money

My dear brothers and sisters, How are you all doing? Hope you are having a blessed month of June like I am.. So I was supposed to put this up last week but long story on why I couldn’t  (please forgive me). About two weeks ago I met a lady in a bus and we got talking.  I could tell that she is a believer as we spoke and it was confirmed not long after. You know, it is so…

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Becoming God’s Own Kind Of Woman

My dear sisters, I have been on a journey with God of recent, one where He keeps tugging me on being His own kind of woman; the Proverbs 31 kind of woman. I first encountered the Proverbs 31 woman from Mama Toju my fellowship Vice President when I was in the University. It was she that also told me about Galatians 5:22 – the fruits of the Spirit. At the time I wrote out Galatians 5:22 and kept seeing it…

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For Those Dealing With Lustful Thoughts

Dear brothers and sisters, This will be one of my most transparent letters yet. As you well know if you aren’t new to this space, I struggled with pornography addiction and masturbation for about 8 years plus before God gave me complete victory over it (you can read my story with addictions and consequent freedom here) It’s been almost three years and I have been totally free! This is not to say that I haven’t been fighting battles to stay…

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How God Healed Me Of My Distrust Of Men (And How He Can Heal You Too)

Hello my dear amazing ladies and gentlemen, Hope you all are doing ama-mazingly well? So last week, I had cause to revisit the post I did on my friend who was stabbed by his wife (see lessons from when I almost dated an engaged man HERE). As I reread the post, I was taken down memory lane and began to share some lessons with my sisters on the women at the well group. One of the things I shared was…

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